Summer Break For The Child Who Needs Structure

I have been feeling it for a while now. The nagging worry. A tiny flicker of fear. The desire to head to Mexico and have a drink by the pool. Summer is coming. When you have a child who requires a consistent routine and struggles with change, summer break is not something you look forward to. Summer break is not really a break at...Read More

Things Doctors Just Shouldn’t Say To A Special Needs Mom

"Where do all these diagnoses come from? Are your children adopted?" I hung up the phone with the doctor a few minutes later and thought, "Well, add that to the list of awkward moments as a mom of children with special needs." There have been so many questions and comments over the years that have floored me. From professionals. From folks who deal with...Read More

To My Son’s Doctor

I hung up the phone with tears in my eyes. The office had not even sent the paperwork yet. Two weeks...wasted. Two weeks of my son being in increasing pain, complete overload, and struggling to participate in everyday life. Two weeks of waiting by the phone for the specialist to call and schedule an appointment. Two weeks...gone. Why? According to the gal on the...Read More

The Best Thing You Can Do To Help An Explosive Child

"I am going to write a doctor's note for you stating that you have a serious medical condition. Perhaps this will help you get respite care from someone." After months of crippling headaches, a stabbing sensation behind my right eye and shooting pains down the right side of my body, I finally went to see a neurologist. Three MRI's and two blood tests later,...Read More

Homeschooling An Explosive Child

There were scratches up and down my arms and my mascara was smudged. I glanced in the rear view mirror and noted that my hair would also need to be fixed before I went into the office. I looked like I had been in a fight. The truth is, I had. As I drove away from my son's school, I fought back tears. "Just getting him...Read More